Invite (all) to the Way of the Lord with wisdom and beautiful preaching; and argue with them in ways that are best and most gracious: for thy Lord knoweth best, who have strayed from His Path, and who receive guidance. (16:125)
You are the best nation produced [as an example] for mankind. You enjoin what is right and forbid what is wrong and believe in Allah . If only the People of the Scripture had believed, it would have been better for them. Among them are believers, but most of them are defiantly disobedient. (3:110)
Thus We have appointed you a middle nation, that ye may be witnesses against mankind, and that the messenger may be a witness against you.... (2:143)
* Beware of the one who talks to you in “the name of love”
who is promising you marriage but he wants to « know you better » through chat before, who wants to see your pic, or wants to go out with you to “have a better idea” of “his future wife” before taking the first step and talk to your father...
If he was really good and righteous, he would suggest immediately to come to your house to ask your wali/father for your hand in marriage.
There is an Arabic proverb talking about this kind of men the one who “enters house from window and not from the door of the house”
and Allah says in Qur’an :” So enter houses through their proper doors, and fear Allah that you may be successful.”
A faithful Muslim man would choose to make what is right and ask the father for the hand of his daughter and not to make a haram relationship with her behind his back! In fact, dating is HARAAM in Islam and the engagement period is made so that the couple know one another better according to Sunnah in the presence of mahram of course (without dating)
* Be careful of a man who talks to you in “the name of religion”
Who wants to be in touch with you so you can help him to become "better Muslim” who wants to have chat with you so that he can take advantage of your Islamic knowledge or who wants to help you in religious matters!
Never trust this kind of men too, because the one who wants to increase his Islamic knowledge, he would’ve sought the help of other men not women!! And if he wants to help others in religious matters then he had to help brothers not sisters! If he was pious, he would know that Allah forbade this kind of relationship because if a man and woman are alone in khalwah (on chat) then shaytan will be the third of them even if they both have “innocent and good” intentions!
◘ Being single does not mean that you are weak, it means you are strong enough to wait for what you really deserve.
◘ If you are happy and confident, you are more likely to attract the right person into your life in the first place.
◘ And most importantly when Allah knows you’re ready for the responsibility of commitment, He will reveal the right person under the right circumstances.
◘ You are not going to displease Allah if you’re single. But you may displease Allah by your lack of thankfulness and weakness in your reliance (tawakul) in Him and giving up on life altogether.
◘ Wait patiently and be optimistic.
وَهُوَ مَعَكُمْ أَيْنَ مَا كُنتُمْ وَاللَّهُ بِمَا تَعْمَلُونَ بَصِيرٌ 57:4
And He is with you wheresoever you may be. And Allah is the All-Seer of what you do.
meaning, He is watching over you and witnessing your deeds wherever you may be, on land or at sea, during the night or the day, at home or in open areas or deserts. All of that is the same before His knowledge and all of it is under His sight and hearing. He hears your speech and sees where you are. He knows your secrets and your public statements
